 My Life follow me on twitter! www.twitter.com/benji7890 .People call me Benjamin. .My friends call me Benji. .I'm a racist in preference. .White guys. .Black girls. .However, there're always exceptions. .16 on 17. .July 5th. .Fool around alot. .Never truely get pissed at someone. .The world goes round and round. .I'm pretty random. .Living in Tokyo. .Singaporean. .Never liked anyone in real life. .Really weird at times. .Really boring at times. .Really hyper at times. .Mood swings. .Really depressed inside. .Rarely shows it. .Really interested to know people. .You can be old, but as long as you ain't a pedophile and want my peen, i'm fine with you. .Love American Idol<3. .I'm a Virgin. .I rarely hit on people. .It might be a flaw, it might not be. .I will not jack off with you. .I've pretty strong values which I follow. .I believe what goes around comes around. .Don't be hatin on me cos I'm asian. .Don't be ignorin me cos I'm ugly. .I love you for you and not cos you're appealing. .Live your life to the fullest cos it's too short to be wasting it. .I feel like my life's only going to start when I'm 22. .I'm currently wasting the first 22 years of my life. .Don't be a hater, love a lover <3. .I put my hands around myself because I'm insecure. .I've a bolster named fluffly. It's my life .I love getting touched even though that like rarely happens Attitude The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It's more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, talent or skills. It will make or break a company... a church... a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding to attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change out past... We cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have and that is our attitude... I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you... We are in charge of our attitudes. Love Love takes time to grow. Infatuation explodes in an instant. You spring into infatuation, but you usually grow into love. Love grows out of knowing all that you can about the other person (good or bad.) Infatuation lives in a make-believe world where the other person is perfect. Infatuation is happy to know very little about someone so it can leave the rest to imagination. But true love longs to know all about someone - the good, the bad, and the ugly. True love focuses on the other person. Infatuation is self-centered. A person in love thinks less about how he or she's going to look and feel in the relationship, and more about what he or she can do to make the other person look and feel great. An infatuated individual may be "in love" with two or more people at the same time. True love is focused only on one person. Genuine love creates a sense of security and feelings of trust. A person who's infatuated often feels jealous because they don't trust the other person. Someone who's infatuated loses his or her ambition and interests in everyday things and daydreams of unrealistic ideals that won't ever really happen. A person in love works hard to better themselves for the person's benefit. A couple in love openly faces problems and tries to solve them. Infatuated people sweep problems under the rug and try to pretend they don't exist. Love understands that giving someone space is a good thing. Infatuation imagines love to be intense closeness 24/7. Physical attraction is a part of true love, but only plays a minor role. It's the central focus of infatuation. A couple in love usually expresses physical affection later in a relationship. In infatuation, affection is expressed earlier, sometimes in the very beginning. Love tends to endure. Infatuation may change suddenly and unpredictably. Don't create an illusion for yourself. Like the one that says that "genuine love creates a sense of security," don't kid yourself into thinking there is a sense of security. Make sure you know for real that it's genuine, otherwise you'll fool yourself into thinking you're in love when you're really not. ‘Lie to me’ She said, ‘I love you,’ He said So she said, "Did you know my heart bleeds for you" and he said, "do you mind? Youre getting blood on my shoes." "So I threw you the obvious to see what occurs behind the eyes of a fallen angel, eyes of a tragedy. oh well. apparently nothing.. you don't see me" "I hate myself for loving you like this, I hate myself for hating myself, just enough to love you" "I wanted to mean everything to you, but this isn't right, you keep coming back disassembled, and I keep losing this fight" </center> follow me on twitter! www.twitter.com/benji7890 |
