CaliguyJames22

WHO I AM!!!! I'd think I am a pretty easy going dude. I get along with just about everybody and enjoy my life. I hate being alone and love being the reason to make others smile. I believe in love. I believe in God. I believe that we all have control over our lives. I believe that every person has good in them. I enjoy a beer every once in a while, but am not a drinker. I joke around and talk too much. Ill try just about anything. I thoroughly enjoy Pepsi, even though i shouldnt be drinking it. The way I act is the way I am, I've got nothing to hide. My life is defined by the people around me and my experiences. I know what I want out of life. Life is too short to wake up with regrets. So love the people who treat you right. Forget about the one's who don't. Believe everything happens for a reason. If you get a second chance, grab it with both hands. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said life would be easy, they just promised it would be worth it. Anyhow I like to be myself and be a happy person. Anyhow heres some more stuff just off my mind, please feel free to enjoy my short novel lol. I am pretty serious, yet can be EXTREMELY sarcastic at times. I tend to be misunderstood because some people take my sarcasm the wrong way. The only people that don't like me, DON'T KNOW me. Life is too short to live up to other peoples expecations. It is very likely people judge me before they even speak to me. I don't know what it is, but I guess my appearance leads people to placing a label on me. From my experiences, I've been told I seem like some "player" or just like "every other guy" but as all the people that have actually taken the time and effort to get to know me have figured out, I am not like that. For those that choose not to, because they THINK they know me, I will be whatever they make me out to be, because they go on to make up their own idea of what I'm like and join the bandwagon of ignorance. Yet I understand; as life's experiences have taught them to not trust anyone. There ARE a lot of people out there that fuck shit up for the rest of us. Then the people that are hurt begin to distrust the wrong people and when they do begin to trust, it's the wrong people. I don't like playing games; a lot of people insist on playing childish games to get what they want. Games only cause people to play more games, and lead to drama. Drama seems to be everywhere these days. Life would be so much easier if people were straight up with each other( I AM). We should stop beating around the bush. Being blunt can sometimes get you where you want to be much faster, depending on what it is that you want. Bluntness can also help diminish some of the old-fashioned views people have nowadays. At times, I can get annoyed by those who insist on making things more difficult than what they should be. Yes, I can be serious, yet I'm a pretty laid back, easy-going guy and a very hard worker; however,some people just don't understand how sarcastic I can be. Occasionally, I may be straight forward, but it can be taken the wrong way; maybe it's the way I phrase my words. *********************For this, I appologize in advance if you are offended. I'm actually somewhat of a hopeless romantic, sad as it is.. even though... "A hopeless romantic is only hopeless in the eyes of those who do not believe in romance" Although I'm not as much of one as I used to be, it seems I'm one of the very few left. I'm not ashamed to say that I've watched and have a couple of 'chick flicks'. I am also a flirt; I'm single, so why not? It's only harmless talk. But then again, I am tired of the single scene; but I've learned IT'S BETTER TO LET THINGS HAPPEN RATHER THEN MAKE THEM HAPPEN (too bad I learned the hard way)... I consider myself to be quite complex and well rounded. I have surprised many people that have actually taken the time to get to know me. There's a lot that even my closest friends don't even know about me, because at times I can be reserved; it just depends on how comfortable I am. I may be quiet at times, but that just depends on my mood or just because I can be shy at times; YES, I am shy.. Hard to believe, isn't it? But I've learned to get comfortable fairly quickly and open up. I have become that guy people love to come to with their problems, and also the guy people make their drunk calls to (Maybe someone will help me understand why that is).. I've also noticed that because I'm the way that I am, people find it easier to get comfortable around me as if they've known me for a while. Get to know me enough and you'll notice that I'm a very curious person.. I ask A LOT of questions.. but it's not a bad thing if you think about it.. I have a very broad imagination and I think about all kinds of things.. I only ask questions because I care... People ASK questions because they want to KNOW.. you want to know because you CARE.. so ASKING QUESTIONS IS CARING :) And yeah.. I love meeting new people, so if you think you see me walking around, then that probably IS me.. don't be shy, say what's up.. I'm very easy going; no need to feel embarrassed because I've done some stupid shit in my time and have completely humiliated myself.. So I'm sure we could relate in some weird way :-P .PS: Please understand something: if you are expecting a god, then I'm not your guy. Look at my pictures...that's what I look like (well, at the time the pics were taken, and they're not old pics!) I'm not drop-dead gorgeous and I'm nowhere near repulsive...I'm attractive inside AND outside and if a person cannot see both qualities, then that individual is obviously not for me, nor I for them. Please get to know someone on both levels before automatically dismissing them...beauty fades, but a good heart and mind can last a lifetime. ***********************************************************************When you want something you've never had, you've gotta do something you've never done.. ----------------------------------------------------------- Behind every ASSHOLE, there's the BITCH that made him that way! ----------------------------------------------------------- "Never judge a man's actions until you know his motives" -------------------------------------------------- "Judgements prevent us from seeing the good that lies beyond appearances." ********************************************************************************************************** hit me up on yahoo messenger of aol yahoo id livinitup559 AIM countryboyee559 im almost always logged on