loveissogood

am looking for a guy who knows what he wants out of life and out of someone, and who wants a meaningful relationship. I am looking for someone who likes to cuddle, kick back and have a good time, knows how to have fun. I don?t always like going out to the clubs, I find that there is too much drama in them, so someone who does not mind staying home and cuddling up together is a plus, I want someone who is HONEST, ROMANTIC, SINCERE, LOYAL, LOVING, CARING,and MONOGAMOUS. I DO NOT stand for cheating, if you cheat you are gone. Communication is important to me, and an importance to any relationship. I am looking for a LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP. I want something that is REAL, not fake. Looks are nice; I mean you have to be attracted to the person, but looks fade, I am more interested in your personality and heart. I am not looking for a trophy boyfriend/husband and I am not out to be someone's trophy boyfriend/husband either. I think that you should have belief in yourself, but I find that arrogance and conceitedness is a BIG turn off. I just find that superficial people are lacking something. I know what I want and I will not settle for less. I only deserve the best. I want someone that I can make happy, and someone that can make me happy, someone that I can just lie under a blanket of stars with or have long walks with at night, someone to wake up next to every morning and thank god for them. I think that is nice to have someone to come home to after a busy day and cook dinner with them and then do the clean up together and then soak in a nice hot bath together or take a nice hot shower together, and then cuddle up in bed together afterwards and hold that special someone or be held by them when going to sleep or watching a movie. Sex is over rated. That is unless you are with someone that you truly care about and love. I don't want a guy who wants to rush through sex... that just makes bad sex. There is more to sex then just getting off. I think that sex is something that you should take your time with. You should take the time to find out what it is that your partner likes without them having to tell you. I like having someone to cuddle up with after a hard day at work, someone that I can come home to and when I see them then I know that everything is alright. I am just a big romantic. I want someone that when I am at a party with them or at dinner that we can look at each other and know what each of us is thinking or saying. I am looking for someone that will accept and love me for who I am and someone that I can love for who they are.