No offense, well actually, I don't really care if I offend you, but The idea that I can't share my problems with other people makes me not give a shit about their problems. Don't tell me your problems.
I honestly couldn't care less if you like the same bands or you've read the same books. Tell me one original thing, tell me one true, real thing that brings me to my fucking knees that I've never heard before and I'm yours.