So by forced church, means you don't really want to go, and you don't really like it, but you have to go anyways... because of your parents?
Church is so much more than what everyone thinks it is..
If you surrender your life to God, not someone elses... or care what people think about you... Church is a time of intimacy with God... Times that will change your life..
You have to learn to worship Him..
He commands it in the bible.. and if we worship Him... His presence comes down, and it will make you new.