The name is Pamela. I love surprises,I love scary movies, but I don't like watching them alone.I have had my heart broken more then once, "what doesn't kill you, makes you stronger." I make mistakes,I live and have fun for the present but always with a careful eye for my future,I have some of the most amazing friends,I love my family,I do not trust easily,I love the feeling of being in love and being loved.I have many dreams and goals that I haven’t shared but will accomplish. I have grown up a lot in the last few years, but I'm not done living and learning quite yet. I will still make mistakes and I will still be criticized for the things I choose to do, but no matter what, I love being me. I believe that when things go wrong they will more than likely get worse before they get better. There comes a point in your life when you realize who matters, who never did, who won't anymore and who always will. so don't worry about people from your past because theres a reason they didn't make it to your future. No matter what you do, someone will HATE you for some reason you may never understand. You cant expect everyone to like you. people are different and thats what makes us so unique, you just can't please everyone... All it does is make you a stronger and more independent, intellectual human being that has something more to offer than the one that just brought you down. (There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real! When the door of happiness closes, another opens; but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don't see the one, which has been opened for us. Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile. Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do. May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human and enough hope to make you happy. The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so at the end, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying..) {God doesn't give you the people you want, He gives you the people you need to help you, to hurt you, to leave you, to love you and to make you into the person you were meant to be.}