ok guys just tell you to go private because they think they have a better chance of seeing you naked if you're private. Don't fall for it when they say "your room is going to crash." You have to have over 150 people at least before the room starts to crash - it won't crash with 30 or 50 or so people. You don't have to have only around 10 or so. Just letting you know, because you're private all the damn time.