Don't like drama. Tired of the games. I'm laid back and just take one day at a time. Tomorrow is not promised to any of us. God comes 1st in my life... because I can't do anything on my own. The only person I fear is God why should you fear any man who has not a heaven or hell to put you in; fear the one who can. I grew up in Oakland left to live my life and now I'm back in the Bay. Wiser and stronger. I feel life is way too short to be worried about something that you can't change. Stress can kill so I'm just trying to keep away from both of them hehehe. I am the kindess most gentle, person. I very compassionate, and understand, I am far from being perfect but stil strive for it, but am loving, and put my all into my passions, but don't take my kindness for a weakness, and think that I'm naive, or don't have a clue. I am not your average man that you would meet in today's time. I have some modern ways; but have alot of the old traditional, teachings that could never be lost. I love family, it plays a big part in my life, the old saying that blood is always thicker than water is very true. Family will be there for you when your up and down. A family that prays together WILL stay together; and one of my favorites is it takes a village to raise a child. Family is VERY important to me; when you have noone else you will have them. There's a lot of things that I had to learn the hard way because I am stubborn; but as I'm getting older I realize that only leads to frustration and pain. I can be your best of friends and be there for you and listen and give good advance (most of the time I'm right) hehehe. Life is too short to worry about you liken me or not; so if you don't then oh well get over it and move on. hehehe. Well i think I've said enough already if you want to know more then just ask. I am not a shy person... you can ask my lady on that one.... hehehehe. So until then God Bless and be safe.